Women's fake orgasm has shown a high rise in statistics in recent times. And if you are here, it is clear that you are aiming for some serious sex points.

It is not rocket science, but it does require a firm foundation of knowledge and skill to please your woman during sex. Do not assume you can do whatever you want down there. It is just a waste of time and effort. It takes a lot of communication and a lot of testing to go down on a woman.

But before you begin oral sex with your partner, it is a good idea to do some study. In this article, we have explained the step-by-step procedure that you must follow to go down on a girl. 

7 Steps to Go Down on a Girl

Here is the 7 step procedure that you must follow properly to give the best oral sex to your girl.

1. Maintain proper hygiene

It is a primary characteristic that the private part has a little bad smell. Smell glands are built into the genitals and the armpits, just like they are in the body. Your balls have the same stinky smell.  People make fun of smelly pussies more than sweaty balls, so do not be surprised if she feels a little self-conscious when you go down on her.

Take a shower together before having sex to make sure you are both clean and smell good. This is the first and the crucial step if you want to go down on a girl. After you wash, there should be no smell.

For your part, make sure you have a clean shave or facial hair that is soft and well-cared for. Having stubble on your face can extremely irritate her and cause pain. 

2. Have some patience

The best oral sex begins long before your face gets between her legs. Good foreplay is the best way to get her excited and ready for oral sex. Women have a lot of complicated systems that have to be activated in the right order and then turned on.

A woman can find it very painful to dive right in with dry fingers. The foreplay will bring some natural lubrication to her vagina, and it will set a trusting tone in her head. When you start at the top of her body, pay close attention to her breasts. Even when you are there, you can kiss her inner thighs and get closer to her lips. When she notices this kind of teasing, it makes her excited and ready for what comes next.

3. Kiss her until she gets wet

At this point, most men go straight for the women's clitoris. But it is not the correct time to go down on a girl. So instead, after kissing the inner thighs, give her soft kisses on the outer lips; this will make her more excited and relaxed. Then reach out your one arm under her thigh and around her stomach. 

When you kiss her, part her outer lips with your tongue to see the inner lips. By now, the woman is getting wet. Then you can slide the tongue over them and gently suck their lips.

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4. Take time to jump to the clitoris

Before you get there, there is still work to be done. First, you should listen for her signs; they can be sounds like moans, screams, or even her high breaths. If your woman is sighing, then it's a good sign, but short gasps and sudden muscle tightening are signs that you are doing something wrong. Then, you can repeat the previous steps to correct things. 

5. Start going down there

It is time for a few more slow licks from the top of the perineum down to just below the clitoris.  Keep going up, and it will lightly touch her clitoris. Do it six times continuously. But on the seventh, pull your tongue back before it comes to the clitoris.

Starting with a steady rhythm like this and then breaking it is a great way to get people excited. As the woman gets more excited, her clitoris will expand, swell, and become more noticeable. Then use your hand to pull back the skin above the hood to see the clitoris more properly. 

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6. Follow a rhythmic pattern

There are some women who like a lot of pressure from a tongue on their clitoris, while others prefer a lighter touch. In time, you will learn more about her needs. If you are not sure, pay attention to her signs. Try out different moves to see which ones she likes the best. Moving up and down and in a circular motion around the clitoris is the best way to get the clitoris to move. Keep the same rhythm when you change things up.

Until you give oral sex regularly, your tongue and jaw will be sore, at least for a short time. Put her clitoris between your lips and give it a little blowjob when you need a break. This will make her crazy. She does not want to feel rushed. Tell her how much you enjoy it. Ask her what she likes and does not like, and then talk to her. As long as she keeps up the rhythm, she should be getting closer to climax.

7. Use your fingers for extra fun

The above steps are usually enough on their own, but adding your fingers can make the orgasm even better for her. When you are still tonguing her clitoris, slowly push one finger into her vagina, but do not push too hard. Stay with it until she feels safe. Adding a second finger might make some women feel a little uncomfortable. 

Your fingers should be in as far as the second knuckle, and your fingers should be facing up. Bend your fingers up so that they touch the top of her vagina, then let them fall back down. You should feel a soft, spongy area if you touch this area. This is the G-spot. Slowly, move your fingers in a "come here" motion over and over again where you always touch this part of her body. Keep doing this as long as your tongue keeps a steady rhythm on her clitoris, and you will make her want to have sex with you. Doing this will give her the best orgasm of her life. 

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Conclusion

Now you know what you should do if you want to go down on a girl and give her the best oral sex experience. So follow the steps mentioned above properly and have a fun sexual experience with your partner.